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LIMEN Energy — Your relationships, made visible

A private, minimal tool for understanding the emotional landscape of your relationships, through your own eyes.

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Your relationships, made visible.

Most of us don't lack self-awareness. They lack structure.

LIMEN Energy helps you track how you feel across your personal relationships, not to judge anyone, but to better understand your own emotional patterns. You log moments, feelings, and energy levels, then the app surfaces patterns you might not otherwise notice.

Over time, that gives you a clearer view of which connections feel supportive, which feel draining, and where your emotional energy is going.

LIMEN Energy is a simple, private app designed to make those patterns easier to see, so you can reflect with more clarity and respond with greater intention. This tool is about deepening your self-awareness and understanding your own emotional landscape more clearly.

How it works

Your circles, your structure.

LIMEN Energy uses Relationship Circles to help you organize the connections in your life into categories like Romantic, Family, Work, or Friendship.

Within each circle, you define the Quality Criteria that matter to you, things like Trust, Consistency, Presence, or Humor. You then rate each interaction against those criteria over time, so the app can track how your experience of that relationship changes.

That creates a longitudinal view of relationship quality, based on how you personally feel it shifting.

Core features

Evaluate what actually matters.

After each interaction, LIMEN Energy helps you capture what happened, how you felt, and the effect on your energy, so you can build a clearer picture of your relationships over time.

  1. 01

    Moments

    The foundation. Log each interaction with what happened, how you felt, and the impact on your energy. Standard Moments use a −5 to +5 energy scale; Micro-Moments capture brief exchanges on a −2 to +2 scale, weighted at 60%, max 3 per connection per day.

  2. 02

    Energy Impact

    Your personal rating from −5 (very depleting) to +5 (very energising). Subjective and uses no external interpretation.

  3. 03

    Feelings

    Select from a curated vocabulary of emotional states to describe how the moment felt to you.

  4. 04

    Context & Response Tags

    Context Tags describe what happened. Response Tags capture how you responded internally.

These reflections are based on your own entries and are intended to support personal awareness. They should not be interpreted as professional evaluation or advice.

LIMEN Energy screen: Emotional Balance chart, Most Frequently Logged Feelings bar chart, and Quality Averages Across Relationships.
Emotional Balance, Logged Feelings & Quality Averages.
LIMEN Energy 'Your Patterns' dashboard showing relationship, moment, and meaningful interaction counts, with an Interaction Pattern Overview.
Your Patterns — relationships, moments & meaningful interactions.

For each connection

What you can track for each connection.

Beyond basic ratings, the app gives you a structured record of how a relationship feels and changes over time — the qualities you define, the signals that show up, and what happens after tension.

  1. 1

    Quality Criteria Ratings

    Define your own personal dimensions for each connection — such as Trust, Consistency, Presence, or Humor — and rate them over time based on what matters to you.

  2. 2

    Signal Detection

    Tags are grouped into three relational signal categories: Activation Signals (closeness-seeking, reassurance-seeking, heightened engagement); Withdrawal Signals (distance-seeking, protection, emotional disengagement); and Stability Signals (secure relating, emotional safety, balanced engagement).

  3. 3

    Repair Dynamics

    Track what happens after tension. When a rupture is followed by repair, that recovery carries 1.5× positive weight in the relationship record.

  4. 4

    Observe Developing Patterns

    Over time, these inputs reveal emotional trends and relational patterns that help you understand the shape of each connection more clearly.

Signal categories

Three kinds of relational signals.

Three signal families help you interpret patterns across interactions.

Activation Signals

Closeness-seeking, reassurance-seeking, heightened engagement.

Withdrawal Signals

Distance-seeking, protection, emotional disengagement.

Stability Signals

Secure relating, emotional safety, balanced engagement.

Interaction Pattern Overview card showing consistency ratings across connections — e.g. 'Moderately variable' and 'Consistent' — on Premium Plus.
Interaction Pattern Overview — recorded experiences, not assessments of any individual.

Create your LIMEN Energy account

Log moments that shape you.

Moments are the foundation of LIMEN Energy. After an interaction, you log what happened, how you felt, and the impact on your energy.

Standard Moments are full interactions you reflect on in depth. They use an energy scale and carry full weight in calculations.

Micro-Moments capture subtle shifts from brief exchanges: a message, tone, or gesture. They use a lower energy scale, and are weighted at 60% in calculations (limited to 3 per connection per day).

  • What happened
  • How you felt
  • Impact on your energy

Why logging matters

  • Time-Decay Weighting gives recent interactions more influence.
  • Consistent logging creates a clearer record of relational patterns over time.
LIMEN Energy 'Most Frequently Logged Feelings' chart — valued, exhausted, celebrated, tense, seen, connected, drained, trapped, burdened, hurt.
Most Frequently Logged Feelings — a curated vocabulary, not free text.

Pattern recognition

See the patterns you've been feeling.

LIMEN Energy surfaces patterns at three depth levels, moving from a high-level relational summary to temporal drift analysis and, for Premium Plus, a deeper synthesis of recurring tendencies.

  1. Layer 1

    Relational Pattern Summary

    High-level overview of energy patterns across all relationships. Identifies which qualities and dynamics tend to energize or drain you.

  2. Layer 2

    Drift Analysis

    Compares recent patterns from the last 45–60 days against older history. Detects directional shifts such as more stability signals or increased activation patterns, showing how relational experience may be evolving.

  3. Layer 3

    Relational Tendencies

    Available on Premium Plus. AI synthesis generates a holistic, non-clinical reflection on recurring tendencies, integrating signal counts, repair dynamics, time-decay weighting, and drift data. Observational language only — never fixed labels.

What you'll finally be able to name

The shape of what you've been sensing.

Which relationships nurture you, and which deplete you.
Energy Impact ratings make this visible over time, not just in the moment.
How your patterns are shifting.
Drift Analysis compares your last 45–60 days against older history, detecting directional changes in your relational experience.
What happens after tension.
Repair Dynamics track rupture-to-repair sequences. Healthy functioning is about responsiveness, not absence of conflict.
How your experience differs across life domains.
Context Filter Lenses let you explore patterns within Romantic, Family, Work, Friendship, and other categories separately.
The recurring tendencies you've sensed but couldn't articulate.
The Relational Tendencies Layer (Premium Plus) uses AI synthesis to surface non-clinical reflections on your emotional and behavioral patterns.

A different kind of mirror

ChatGPT vs. LIMEN Energy.

Both can support reflection. They work in fundamentally different ways.

ChatGPT
LIMEN Energy
Understands what you tell it today
Observes what you've experienced over time
Based on your current memory
Based on your recorded moments
Excellent for reflection
Excellent for recognizing patterns
Snapshot
Timeline
Conversation
Observation

Neither replaces the other. LIMEN Energy is built for the patterns a conversation can't hold.

Philosophy

Intentionally minimal. Radically private.

LIMEN Energy is built for structured reflection, not self-surveillance. The interface stays quiet and uncluttered by design, creating more room for clarity, focus, and careful thought.

Your data belongs to you — nothing is shared, sold, or used to train any system. You can permanently delete your account and all associated data at any time from Settings. No behavioral tracking data is collected beyond the basic app usage metrics needed to keep the service running.

LIMEN Energy is not:

  • A social network
  • A networking platform
  • A scoring system for individuals
  • A comparison tool
  • An app that provides external validation
LIMEN Energy 'Relational Pattern Summary' screen — a reflective read of recurring patterns across logged moments.
Relational Pattern Summary — a reflective read of your recurring patterns.

Design principle

Intentionally minimal. Radically private.

A quiet summary of the patterns across your logged moments — offered as a space for reflection, not a clinical or diagnostic assessment.

No Social Features

Nothing you enter is shared, suggested, or visible to anyone else. Your reflections stay with you, always.

Minimal Interface

The design is quiet by intention. Fewer distractions, less visual noise, more room for structured reflection and decision clarity.

Non-Judgmental

The app holds no opinion about your situations or your choices. It simply reflects back what you have noticed and recorded over time, supporting pattern recognition.

Personal, Not Social

A clarity tool, not a networking platform. No comparisons, no benchmarks, no external validation. Dedicated to your personal insights and intentional decision-making.

Data is never shared, sold, or used to train any system. You can permanently delete your account at any time.

A tool for conscious relationship choices

"The goal is not to score connections. It's to support self-awareness and conscious relationship choices."

LIMEN Energy operates from a place of deep respect: for your relationships, your privacy, and your autonomy. This is not therapy, not coaching, and not a substitute for professional mental health support. It is a space for personal reflection.

What it offers instead is something rarer: a mirror. A structured, private space to observe and reflect on your relational patterns with clarity and without judgment. From that foundation, intentional decisions become possible: about boundaries, closeness, and how you spend your time.

One-tap access

If you check in every day, make it one tap.

LIMEN Energy is a web app — no store, no download. Add it to your Home Screen and it opens like any other app on your phone, in seconds.

  1. 1

    Open LIMEN Energy in your browser

    Visit limenenergy.com on your phone (Safari on iPhone, Chrome on Android).

  2. 2

    Tap Share → Add to Home Screen

    On iPhone, use the Share icon. On Android, open the browser menu and choose Install app or Add to Home Screen.

  3. 3

    Your threshold is always there

    The LIMEN arch appears on your home screen. One tap and you're reflecting.

Did you know LIMEN Energy can live on your home screen?

Three-step illustration showing how to add LIMEN Energy to your phone's home screen.

Start reflecting with LIMEN Energy

Begin with yourself.

Self-awareness is not a destination, it's a practice. LIMEN Energy is designed to support that practice quietly, consistently, and without pressure. You can begin with one connection, one circle, one moment. There is no prescribed way to use it.

The app is live now at limenenergy.com.

Available in 6 languages: 🇬🇧 English · 🇫🇷 Français · 🇪🇸 Español · 🇩🇪 Deutsch · 🇮🇹 Italiano · 🇷🇴 Română

LIMEN Energy is not a medical device. Use it mindfully.